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Cohabitation Agreements in BC: What Couples Living Together Should Know

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Cohabitation Agreements in BC: What Couples Living Together Should Know

A cohabitation agreement is a written contract between two people who live together, or plan to, without being married. In British Columbia, couples who live together in a marriage-like relationship for two years are generally treated like married spouses when it comes to dividing property, and many people do not realise this until they separate. This guide explains who counts as a spouse, how property is shared, what a cohabitation agreement can and cannot do, the formal requirements, when a court can set an agreement aside, and how the rules differ in Ontario.

Last updated: October 30, 2026

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Watch: cohabitation agreements in BC explained

This short explainer video covers who counts as a spouse in BC, how property is shared, what makes an agreement stronger, what an agreement cannot decide about children, and how Ontario differs.

What is a cohabitation agreement?

A cohabitation agreement sets out what will happen to property, debts and, in some cases, spousal support if a relationship ends. It lets a couple make their own arrangements instead of relying only on the default rules in the law.

In British Columbia, the Family Law Act, SBC 2011, c 25 allows spouses to make agreements about dividing property and debt (section 92) and about spousal support. In Ontario, section 53 of the Family Law Act, RSO 1990, c F.3 specifically allows two people who are cohabiting or intend to cohabit, and who are not married to each other, to make an agreement about their rights and obligations during cohabitation, on separation or on death. If the couple later marry each other, the Ontario cohabitation agreement is deemed to be a marriage contract (section 53(2)).

Pax Law Corporation’s family law and divorce team helps clients prepare and review cohabitation, marriage and separation agreements.

Who counts as a spouse in BC?

Under section 3(1) of BC’s Family Law Act, a person is a spouse if they are married, or if they have lived with another person in a marriage-like relationship for a continuous period of at least two years. For most other parts of the Act, having a child together can also make someone a spouse, but not for property division (Part 5) or pension division (Part 6).

This means that in BC, an unmarried couple who have lived together in a marriage-like relationship for two years are generally treated like married spouses for property division, even if they never signed anything. Under section 3(3), the relationship is treated as beginning on the earlier of the date the couple began living together in a marriage-like relationship or the date they married.

How property is shared in BC

  • Equal sharing is the starting point. Under section 81, unless an agreement or order says otherwise, on separation each spouse has a right to an undivided half interest in all family property and is equally responsible for family debt.
  • Family property. Section 84 generally captures property owned by either spouse at the date of separation.
  • Excluded property. Section 85 lists excluded property, such as property owned before the relationship began, inheritances and gifts from third parties.
  • Growth in value. An increase in the value of excluded property during the relationship is family property (section 84(2)(g)).
  • Burden of proof. The spouse who says property is excluded must prove it (section 85(2)).

A cohabitation agreement can change these default rules. For example, a couple can agree that a home one person owned before moving in, including its growth in value, will stay with that person. Section 92 allows spouses to agree to divide property or debt equally or unequally, and to include or exclude property or debt.

Formal requirements for a BC agreement

Section 93 of BC’s Family Law Act applies to a written agreement about property and debt that is signed by both spouses, with each signature witnessed by at least one other person. The same person may witness both signatures.

Under section 93(6), a court may also apply these rules to an unwitnessed written agreement if that is appropriate in all the circumstances. Even so, the safest approach is to put the agreement in writing, have both people sign it, and have each signature witnessed.

When can a court set an agreement aside?

A signed agreement is not always final. Under section 93(3), the Supreme Court of British Columbia may set aside or replace all or part of a property agreement if, when the agreement was made:

  • a spouse failed to disclose significant property or debts, or other information relevant to the negotiation;
  • a spouse took improper advantage of the other spouse’s vulnerability, including ignorance, need or distress;
  • a spouse did not understand the nature or consequences of the agreement; or
  • other circumstances existed that would make all or part of a contract voidable under the common law.

Under section 93(5), even if none of those problems existed, the court may intervene if the agreement is significantly unfair, considering the time that has passed since it was made, the spouses’ intention to achieve certainty, and how much they relied on its terms.

Section 164 has similar rules for spousal support agreements, including a failure to disclose income, and a significant unfairness test that also considers changes in each spouse’s circumstances and the spousal support objectives of the Act.

Children: what an agreement cannot decide in advance

Parenting arrangements must be based on the best interests of the child only (section 37). Under section 44, an agreement about parenting arrangements is binding only if it is made after separation, or when separation is about to happen. Under section 148, a court may set aside or replace child support terms if it would make a different order under the Child Support Guidelines.

In practice, a cohabitation agreement cannot lock in parenting time or child support before a couple separates. Those issues are decided based on the child’s needs at the time.

Time limits after separation

Under section 198(2) of BC’s Family Law Act, unmarried spouses generally have two years from the date they separated to start a court claim to divide property or family debt, divide a pension or obtain spousal support. A separate two-year period applies to applications to set aside an agreement, running from when the spouse discovered, or reasonably ought to have discovered, the grounds. These time limits can be suspended during certain family dispute resolution processes, so get legal advice early.

How Ontario is different

Ontario’s rules differ in several important ways:

  • Property. For property equalization, “spouse” generally means married people (section 1(1) of Ontario’s Family Law Act). Unmarried couples do not share in the statutory property equalization scheme.
  • Support. For support, section 29 also includes unmarried people who have cohabited continuously for at least three years, or who are in a relationship of some permanence and are the parents of a child.
  • Formalities. Under section 55(1), a domestic contract is unenforceable unless it is made in writing, signed by the parties and witnessed.
  • Children. Under section 53(1)(c), a cohabitation agreement may deal with the right to direct the education and moral training of children, but not decision-making responsibility or parenting time.
  • Setting aside. Under section 56(4), a court may set aside a domestic contract or a provision in it for failure to disclose significant assets, debts or other liabilities, if a party did not understand the nature or consequences of the contract, or otherwise under the law of contract.

In LeVan v. LeVan, 2008 ONCA 388, the Court of Appeal for Ontario explained that this is a discretionary, two-step analysis: the court first decides whether a ground in section 56(4) is proven, and then whether it is appropriate to set the contract aside. Pax Law Professional Corporation assists Ontario clients from its Toronto office; see its Toronto family law page.

What the courts have said about fairness and disclosure

  • In Hartshorne v. Hartshorne, 2004 SCC 22, a case under BC’s former Family Relations Act, the Supreme Court of Canada described independent legal advice as an important means of ensuring an informed decision.
  • In Rick v. Brandsema, 2009 SCC 10, also under the former BC law, the Court stressed the duty to make full and honest disclosure of relevant financial information when negotiating a family agreement.
  • In Miglin v. Miglin, 2003 SCC 24, the Court set out a two-stage approach for spousal support applications under the Divorce Act where a support agreement already exists: the court looks at the circumstances when the agreement was made, and again when the application is brought.

Step-by-step: making a stronger agreement

  1. Talk openly about your goals, such as protecting a home you owned before moving in, a business or a future inheritance.
  2. Exchange full financial disclosure, including income, property, debts and pensions.
  3. Each person should get independent legal advice from a different lawyer.
  4. Put the agreement in writing, sign it, and have each signature witnessed.
  5. Review and update the agreement when your life changes, for example when you buy a home, have a child or marry.

Common mistakes to avoid

  • Using a template that does not fit BC or Ontario law.
  • Hiding or forgetting assets or debts.
  • Signing under pressure, just before moving in or just before a wedding.
  • One person signing without independent legal advice.
  • Trying to decide parenting or child support in advance.
  • Never updating the agreement after major life changes.

If you are already separated, a separation agreement may be the right document instead. Mediation and negotiation may help you reach an agreement without going to court.

When should you speak with a lawyer?

Get legal advice before you move in together or soon after, before you buy property together, before you sign any agreement, and as soon as possible after you separate. Pax Law Corporation helps clients with cohabitation, marriage and separation agreements in British Columbia from its North Vancouver office. You can also read about prenuptial and marriage agreements and divorce and separation.

Key takeaways

  • In BC, unmarried couples who live together in a marriage-like relationship for two years are generally treated like married spouses for property division.
  • A cohabitation agreement lets you set your own arrangements for property, debt and support.
  • The agreement should be in writing, signed by both of you, and witnessed.
  • Full financial disclosure and independent legal advice help protect the agreement.
  • A court can still set aside an agreement in certain circumstances, including significant unfairness.
  • Parenting and child support terms remain open to review in the child’s best interests.
  • Ontario’s rules for property, support and formalities are different from BC’s.

Frequently asked questions

What is a cohabitation agreement?

It is a written contract between two people who live together, or plan to, without being married. It sets out how property, debts and, in some cases, spousal support will be handled if the relationship ends.

Do unmarried couples in BC divide property like married couples?

Generally yes, if they lived together in a marriage-like relationship for a continuous period of at least two years. Under section 3 of BC’s Family Law Act, they are spouses for property division.

Does having a child make us spouses for property division in BC?

No. Having a child can make someone a spouse for other parts of BC’s Family Law Act, but not for property division or pension division, which need the two-year period.

What property can be protected in a cohabitation agreement?

A couple can agree how to treat property such as a home owned before moving in, a business, or a future inheritance, including any growth in value, which would otherwise generally be shared as family property.

Does a cohabitation agreement have to be witnessed in BC?

Section 93 applies to a written agreement with each signature witnessed by at least one other person. A court may apply it to an unwitnessed written agreement in some cases, but witnessing is the safer approach.

Can a court set aside a cohabitation agreement in BC?

Yes. Under section 93, a court may set aside or replace all or part of a property agreement for problems such as non-disclosure, improper advantage, lack of understanding, or significant unfairness.

Can we decide parenting time or child support in a cohabitation agreement?

Not in a binding way in advance. In BC, parenting agreements are binding only if made after or about the time of separation, and child support terms can be set aside under section 148.

Do we each need our own lawyer?

It is strongly recommended. In Hartshorne, 2004 SCC 22, the Supreme Court of Canada described independent legal advice as an important means of ensuring an informed decision.

How long do I have to make a claim after separating in BC?

Unmarried spouses generally have two years from the date of separation to start a claim to divide property or family debt, divide a pension, or obtain spousal support under section 198.

Are cohabitation agreements different in Ontario?

Yes. Unmarried couples in Ontario are not spouses for property equalization, and the support threshold is generally three years of cohabitation or a relationship of some permanence with a child.

What happens to an Ontario cohabitation agreement if we marry?

Under section 53(2) of Ontario’s Family Law Act, it is deemed to be a marriage contract.

Can we change our cohabitation agreement later?

Yes. You can amend it, and you should review it after major life changes. Any amendment should also be in writing, signed and witnessed.

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Disclaimer: This article is general information only, not legal advice. It reflects British Columbia’s Family Law Act, Ontario’s Family Law Act and the federal Divorce Act as of the date above. Rules change and every situation is different. Reading this article does not create a lawyer-client relationship. Speak with a lawyer about your own circumstances before you act.

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