He aha te Whakaaetanga Marena, me te aha e hiahiatia ai e ia tokorua

He mea whakamā te kōrero mō te whakaaetanga i mua i te marena. Ko te tūtaki ki te tangata motuhake e hiahia ana koe ki te noho tahi ko tētahi o ngā tino harikoa o te ao. Ahakoa kei te whakaaro koe ki te ture noa, ki te marena rānei, ko te mea whakamutunga e hiahia ana koe ki te whakaaro ko te mutunga o te whanaungatanga i tētahi rā – he kino atu rānei – ka pōuri te mutunga, me te pakanga mō ngā rawa me ngā nama.

Ko te hainatanga i tētahi whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena, ehara i te mea kei te whakamahere kē kōrua ki te wehe i tētahi rā. Ina hoko tātou i tētahi waka hou, ko te mea whakamutunga e whakaarohia ana e tātou ko te tahaetia, te pakaru, te whakangaro rānei; engari e mōhio ana tātou ka taea e te ao te tuku ohorere mai ki a tātou, nō reira ka inihua e tātou. Mā te whai i tētahi whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena ka whakaratohia he inihua mō tētahi wehenga pouri, he whakataunga hē rānei. Ko te wā tino pai ki te whakatakoto whakaritenga hei tiaki i ngā painga o ngā taha e rua ko te wā e aroha ana kōrua tetahi ki tetahi.

Mā te marena tuatahi ka whakatūria he ture mārama mō te wehewehe i ngā rawa me ngā nama, me te tautoko pea, mēnā ka wehe, ka whakarerea rānei. Ki te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, ka whakaratohia e ēnei whakaaetanga he wairua haumaru.

I Kanata, he rite tonu te whakahaere i ngā whakaaetanga i mua i te marena ki ngā kirimana marena, ā, e whakahaeretia ana e ngā ture ā-rohe. Ko te tohatoha rawa, te tautoko a te hoa rangatira, me te nama ngā kaupapa matua e arohia ana i roto i ngā whakaaetanga i mua i te marena.

He aha te mea ahurei mō ngā Whakaaetanga Pre-Mare o BC

He tokomaha ngā tāngata o Kanata e whakaaro ana ko te whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena he mea mō te hunga anake e whakamahere ana ki te marena. Heoi, ko te Ture Ture Whānau o BC ka taea e te hunga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga ture noa te whakauru ki ngā whakaaetanga i mua i te marena. Ko te whanaungatanga ture noa he whakaritenga e noho tahi ai kōrua ko tētahi i roto i te whakaritenga marena.

Ehara i te mea ko te whanaungatanga anake, ko te pakaru rānei o te marena te kaupapa o ngā whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena. Ka taea hoki e te whakaaetanga te whakaatu i te āhua o te whakahaere i ngā rawa me te tūranga o ia hoa rangatira i roto i te whanaungatanga. Koia te take e tohe tonu ai ngā kōti BC ki te take o te tika i mua i te whakamana i te whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena.

He aha i hiahia ai te katoa ki tētahi Whakaaetanga Marenatanga

Ko Canada reiti whakarere kua piki haere tonu i roto i te tekau tau kua hipa. I te tau 2021, tata ki te 2.74 miriona tāngata i wehe ture, ā, kāore i moe anō. Ko British Columbia tētahi o ngā kawanatanga he nui rawa ngā reiti whakarere, he paku teitei ake i te toharite o te motu.

Ehara i te mea ngāwari te whakarere, ā, tera pea ka roa te wā e ora ai i muri i tētahi. Ko te whakaaetanga marena te inihua pai rawa atu mō ngā taha e rua kia kore ai tetahi e hinga. Anei ētahi take motuhake e rima e tika ai te whakaaetanga marena:

Hei tiaki i ngā rawa whaiaro

Mena he nui āu rawa, he mea maori noa iho te hiahia kia tiakina aua rawa. Mā te whakaaetanga marena tuatahi ka taea e koe te whakarite i tētahi whakaritenga tika mā te whakarite i te nui o te taonga ka riro i tō hoa rangatira, me te aukati i ngā mea ehara i a rātou hei kereme.

Mā te whakaaetanga ka ārai i ngā pakanga mana koretake, ā, ka whakarato hoki i tētahi ara hei puta atu i ngā tautohe tautohetohe mēnā kāore te marena e angitu.

Hei whakatau i ngā take nui i roto i tētahi pakihi whānau

Ahakoa kāore pea i te whakaarohia te whakarere, he mea nui kia kōrerohia, kia whakaurua hoki he whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena mēnā he pakihi whānau tāu e whakahaere ana. Mā tēnei ka taea te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pono, mārama hoki mō te mana o te pakihi i a koe e marena ana.

Ko te take matua mō te whakauru ki tētahi whakaaetanga marena tuatahi, he whakamārama i ngā mea ka pā ki te pakihi i muri i te wehenga. Ka āwhina tēnei ki te tiaki i ngā pānga o ia rōpū ki te pakihi, ā, hei whakapūmau i te haere tonu o tana mahi.

Hei whakahaere i ngā nama e toe ana i muri i te whakarere

Kua roa ngā whakaaetanga i mua i te marena e whakamahia ana hei whakatau i ngā āhuatanga ka pā ki ngā rawa i kawea mai ki roto i te marena, i riro mai rānei i te wā o te marena. Heoi anō, ka taea hoki e koe te whakamahi hei whakatau i ngā nama i riro mai, i riro mai rānei i roto i te marena.

Hei tiaki i tō āhua pūtea i muri i te wehenga, i te whakarere rānei

He nui ngā kōrero whakamataku mō te hunga e ngaro ana ō rātou whare, e ngaro ana rānei ō rātou penihana i British Columbia. Ahakoa kāore tetahi e hiahia ana ki te whakaaro ka mutu te marena i roto i te wehenga pouri, ko te noho i te taha hē o te wehenga ka mate pea tō pumau pūtea.

Tērā pea ka akiakihia koe e ētahi whakarere kia wehewehe i ō rauemi, tae atu ki ō haumitanga me ō moni reti. Ka taea e te whakaaetanga marena mua te tiaki i a koe mai i tēnei, me ngā utu ture nui e puta ana i roto i te whakarere tautohetohe. Ka tiakina ō painga kia tika ai te whakataunga.

Mena kei te tumanako koe ki te whiwhi taonga tuku iho, ka taea e te marena mua te tiaki i ngā rawa tuku iho pēnei i te moni i roto i te pūkete penapena i tukuna mai i tētahi whanaunga, te whenua i tukuna ki a koe i mua i te marena, te pānga whai hua rānei i roto i tētahi whakawhirinakitanga i hangaia e tētahi mema o te whānau.

Hei whiwhi whakaaetanga ōkawa mō ngā wero mō te alimony e tū mai nei

Tērā pea he tautohenga, he utu nui hoki te whakatau i te nui o te tautoko a te hoa rangatira i muri i te wehenga uaua. Tērā pea ka miharo koe ki te nui o te tautoko e tika ana kia utua e koe, inā koa mēnā he nui ake tāu whiwhinga moni i tō hoa rangatira.

Mā te whakaaetanga i mua i te marena ka taea te whakakore i te tautoko a te hoa rangatira i raro i ngā whakaritenga o te Ture Ture Whānau. Engari, ka taea e kōrua te whakaae ki tētahi tauira tautoko a te hoa rangatira kāore pea e hanga he āhuatanga uaua rawa atu mā kōrua. Ka taea hoki e koe te whakamahi i tēnei whakaaetanga whānau hei whakamahere mō ngā whakaritenga mātua ā muri ake nei.

He aha i whakakorea ai e te kooti BC tō whakaaetanga marena mua

Kāore he ture e akiaki ana i tētahi kainoho o BC kia haina i tētahi whakaaetanga marena. Heoi, me whakaaro koe ki tēnei hei whakatū whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera mō ngā take nui o te ao i mua i te marena, i te neke tahi rānei. Me tiaki hoki ō painga pūtea mēnā ka mutu te marena, te whanaungatanga rānei.

Me whai mana ture te whakaaetanga marena pai, me te whakaatu katoa i ngā āhuatanga pūtea, ngā whāinga matua o te marena, te huarahi kua whiriwhiria mō te whakatipu tamariki, te pakihi whānau, te taonga tuku iho, ngā haumitanga rānei, ngā nama, me te maha atu o ngā whakaaro. Heoi anō, tera pea ka hiahia tō hoa ki te whakarere me ngā take tika hei whakakore i te marena. Anei ngā take matua e whakaae ai te kooti BC ki ēnei tono me te whakakore i te marena.

Ngā tikanga turekore o te whakaaetanga

Ka taea e koe te tāpiri i ngā whakaritenga maha ki te whakaaetanga marena tuatahi, mena kāore i te turekore. Hei tauira, ko ngā wāhanga katoa e pā ana ki te tautoko tamariki me te mana tiaki me piri ki ngā whakaritenga o te BC Family Law Act.

Ko ngā whakataunga nui mō te tautoko tamariki me te mana tiaki tamariki ka taea anake te whakatau hei painga mō te tamaiti. I te nuinga o te wā, ka tū te kooti ki ngā whakaritenga o te ture, ahakoa he takahi i te whakaaetanga marena.

Te korenga o ngā māngai ture

Me rapu tohutohu koe i tētahi māngai ture mātau i mua i te whakatinanatanga o tētahi whakaaetanga i mua i te marena i BC. Ko te rōia whānau motuhake te mea pai rawa atu hei karo i ngā whakapae pea mō te pēhanga mēnā ka whakatau tētahi rōpū ki te whakahē i te tika o te whakaaetanga.

Tērā pea ka whakakorehia e te Kōti tētahi whakaaetanga marena hou mēnā kāore e tutuki ngā whakaritenga ture me ngā āwangawanga o ngā taha e rua. Ko te hainatanga i te whakaaetanga marena hou i a koe e kai ana i ngā raau taero he take tika anō hoki hei whakahē i tōna mana whakahaere.

Tinihanga me te kore pono

Ka taea e te kooti te whakakore i tētahi whakaaetanga marena mēnā ka kitea e ia i tinihanga tētahi o ngā rōpū, i kōrero teka rānei.

Me whakaatu e ia rōpū ā rātou rawa i mua i te hainatanga i tētahi whakaaetanga marena. Mēnā ka whakaaturia kāore tētahi rōpū i whakaatu, i whakaiti rānei i te uara o ā rātou rawa, he nui ngā take a te kooti ki te whakakore i te whakaaetanga.

Ngā tikanga me tutuki kia taea ai te whakamana i tō marena i mua i te marena

Me tutuki i ngā whakaritenga e whai ake nei ngā whakaritenga katoa mō te marena i hainatia i raro i te BC Family Law Act kia whai mana ai:

Maharahara pūtea

Kāore e taea e te kooti te whakamana i tētahi whakaaetanga marena hou mēnā kāore i te whakaaturia katoatia ngā āhuatanga pūtea. Me whakapuaki tika koe i te nui o tō moni me te nui o tō whiwhinga. E whakaaetia ana hoki te kooti BC i raro i te ture ki te whakakore i ngā whakaaetanga marena hou koretake e kore nei e whakaatu tika i ngā tatauranga mō te nui o te moni me pupuri e ia hoa rangatira.

Tohutohu ture mai i tētahi rōpū tuatoru

Ko te whakaurunga ki tētahi whakaaetanga marena hou me mārama koe ki ō tika, ki ō herenga, me ngā hua o te hainatanga i te whakaaetanga. Me whai rōia tā ia rōpū. He mana tō te kooti ki te whakakore i tētahi whakaaetanga marena hou mēnā kāore i ahu mai i tētahi rōia motuhake.

Ngā whiriwhiringa tika

Me whai wā ia rōpū ki te whiriwhiri me te tirotiro i ngā taipitopito o te whakaaetanga kia whai mana ai. Ka taea e te kooti te whakakore i tētahi whakaaetanga mēnā ka akiaki tētahi o ngā hoa rangatira i tētahi atu kia haina.

Te hanganga ture

Me whakarite te whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena kia rite ki ngā āhuatanga o ia tokorua. Heoi, me tutuki i ngā ture o te Ture Whānau o British Columbia me te Ture Whakarere.

He whakarāpopototanga o ngā painga o te whai kirimana marena tuatahi BC

Ko te whakaaetanga marena pai rawa atu me ahu mai i tētahi kōrero tuwhera, ā, me whakarite kia whai hua ai ngā taha e rua. Mā tēnei ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whiwhi i ngā painga pēnei i:

Tuhinga o mua

Mā te whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena ka marino te ngākau, me te mōhio kei te tiakina kōrua e te whakaaetanga mēnā ka puta he mea ohorere, ā, ka heke te pai o tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Mā tēnei ka mōhio kōrua ko tō hoa rangatira e pā ana ki te whanaungatanga me ngā mahere pūtea.

Ka taea e koe te whakarite kia rite ki ō hiahia takitahi

Ka taea te whakarite i ngā whakaaetanga o mua i te marena kia rite ki ngā hiahia me ngā āhuatanga o te tokorua. Māu e whakatau me pēhea te whakahaere i ngā āhuatanga o tō oranga, pēnei i ngā tamariki, ngā taonga, me te moni, mēnā ka puta he wehenga, he whakarere rānei.

He ārai kei reira mai i te whakarere kino

Mā te whai whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena ka penapena i tō wā me tō moni i te wā roa mēnā ka pakaru te hononga. Ka taea e ia te whakaiti i te tautohetohe o te whakarere, te whakahaere i te whakataunga maeneene, me te whakarite kia tika te tohatoha o ngā rawa me ngā nama.

He mea hanga ngā whakaaetanga marena mō te hunga whai rawa?

Ko tētahi whakaaro hē whānui ko te mea ko ngā whakaaetanga marena mua he mea hanga hei tiaki i te hunga whai rawa mai i ngā kaipahua. Ko ngā marena mua he momo kirimana ka whai hua mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa mā te whakamārama i ngā tika me ngā herenga ki a rātou anō i te wā e mutu ai te whanaungatanga, me te wā e mutu ai.

I British Columbia, ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kāore anō kia mārena, engari e whakaaro ana ki te mārena, te haina i tētahi whakaaetanga mō te marena tuatahi, te whakaaetanga mō te marena tuatahi rānei. Ko te whakaaetanga noho tahi he mea mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e rapu ana i te haumarutanga pūtea me te kore e mārena.

Ka taea hoki te kī he whakaaetanga noho tahi ko te "marenatanga ā-ture" ā, he rite ki te whakaaetanga mārenatanga, ki te kirimana marena rānei. He rite tonu te mahi ki te marena ā-ture noa i BC. Ko te rerekētanga anake ko ngā mana ture whānau rerekē o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine.

Ko te takeaway

Ehara i te mea ko te whakaaetanga marena mua te tikanga kei te anga te hononga ki te whakarere, kāore rānei koe e whakaaro ana ki te whakaaro ki te marena hei whakaritenga pakihi. He momo inihua tēnei e hoatu ana ki ia taha te rangimarie o te hinengaro me te mōhio kei te tiakina koe mēnā ka puta he mea kāore i te tino tūpono. He pānga pai te whai whakaaetanga marena mua ki te tukanga whakarere, inā koa mēnā i whakaritea, i hainatia hoki e ngā rōia whānau mātau. Waea mai Āmiri Ghorbani ki Pax Law i tēnei rā hei tīmata i te tuhi i tō whakaaetanga marena.