Ngati mwabwera kumene ndi anzanu kapena mukukonzekera, mukulowa masewera apamwamba kwambiri. Zinthu zikhoza kuyenda bwino, ndipo makonzedwe a kukhalira limodzi atha kukhala pachibwenzi cha nthaŵi yaitali kapenanso ukwati. Koma ngati zinthu sizikuyenda bwino, kupatukana kungakhale kosokoneza kwambiri. Chikalata chokhalira limodzi kapena asanakwatirane chingakhale chikalata chothandiza kwambiri kwa mabanja ambiri omwe ali pabanja. Popanda pangano loterolo, okwatirana amene amasudzulana pambuyo pokhalira limodzi angapeze chuma chawo chili pansi pa malamulo a magawano omwe amagwira ntchito m’milandu yachisudzulo ku British Columbia.
Chifukwa chachikulu chofunsira asanakwatirane mwachizoloŵezi chakhala kutsimikizira kukhazikika kwachuma kwa membala wopeza bwino wa mgwirizano waukwati. Koma okwatirana ambiri tsopano akusankha kukhala ndi ukwati usanakhale, ngakhale pamene ndalama zawo, ngongole ndi katundu zili pafupifupi zofanana pamene ayamba chibwenzi.
Anthu okwatirana ambiri sangayerekeze n’komwe kuti zinthu zikhoza kuthera m’kukangana koopsa akamakakhala ndi munthu amene amamukonda. Pamene akugwirana manja, kuyang'anana m'maso ndi kulingalira moyo wawo watsopano wodabwitsa pamodzi, kusweka kwa mtsogolo ndi chinthu chotsiriza m'maganizo awo.
Kusweka kungakhale kovuta kwambiri, popanda kulemedwa kukambirana za kugawanika kwa katundu, ngongole, alimony ndi chithandizo cha ana ndi maganizo akuthamanga kwambiri. Anthu amene akumva kuwawa mtima kwambiri, mantha kapena kukwiyira akhoza kuchita zinthu mosiyana kwambiri ndi mmene amachitira zinthu pakakhala bata.
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti pamene maubwenzi akusokonekera, anthu nthawi zambiri amapeza mbali yatsopano ya munthu yemwe poyamba ankamukonda kwambiri.
Aliyense anabweretsa zinthu m’nyumba zimene ankagawana pamene ankakhala limodzi. Mkangano ungayambike wonena kuti ndani wabweretsa chiyani, kapena amene amafunikira chinthu kwambiri. Kugula kophatikizana kungakhale kovuta kwambiri; makamaka kugawanika kwa zogula zazikulu monga galimoto kapena nyumba. Pamene mikangano ikukulirakulira, zolinga zimatha kuchoka pa zomwe akufuna, zomwe akufuna kapena kumva kuti zili zoyenera, kusasamala ndi kulanda mnzawo wakale chinthu chomwe chimatanthauza zambiri.
Kukhala ndi chidziŵitso chopezera uphungu wa zamalamulo, ndi kukhala ndi pangano lokhala pamodzi musanasamukire limodzi kapena ukwati kungapangitse kupatukana kukhala kosavuta.
Kodi Mgwirizano wa Cohabitation ndi chiyani?
Pangano la kukhalira limodzi ndi mgwirizano walamulo wosainidwa ndi anthu awiri omwe akukonzekera kusamukira m'nyumba imodzi, kapena okhala pamodzi. Ma Cohabs, monga momwe mapanganowa amatchulidwira kaŵirikaŵiri, amafotokoza mmene zinthu zidzagaŵira ngati unansiwo utha.
Zina mwa zinthu zomwe zingaphatikizidwe mu mgwirizano wa cohabitation ndi:
- yemwe ali ndi chiyani
- ndi ndalama zingati zomwe munthu aliyense azigwiritsa ntchito panyumba
- momwe makadi a ngongole adzachitira
- mmene kusamvana kudzathere
- amene adzasunga galu kapena mphaka
- amene amakhalabe ndi umwini wa katundu wopezedwa ubwenzi wokhalira limodzi usanayambe
- amene amakhalabe ndi umwini wa katundu wogulidwa pamodzi
- momwe ngongole zidzagawidwira
- momwe cholowa chidzagawidwira ngati mabanja akuphatikizidwa
- kaya padzakhala chichirikizo cha mwamuna kapena mkazi pakagwa chisudzulo
Ku British Columbia, mfundo za mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi ziyenera kuonedwa ngati zoyenera, ndipo sizingaphwanye ufulu wa munthu; koma kupitirira pamenepo kungaphatikizepo mawu osiyanasiyana. Mapangano okhalira limodzi sangathe kufotokoza momwe anthu ayenera kuchitira mu ubale. Sanganenenso udindo wolera ana kapena kutchula chithandizo cha ana omwe sanabadwe.
Pansi pa malamulo a British Columbian, mapangano okhalira limodzi amaonedwa kuti ndi ofanana kwambiri ndi mapangano a ukwati, ndipo amakhala ndi mphamvu zofanana. Kutchula kokha ndikosiyana. Atha kugwiritsa ntchito kwa okwatirana, okwatirana omwe ali pachibwenzi komanso anthu okhala limodzi.
Ndi Liti Pamene Pangano Lakukhalira limodzi Ndi Lofunika Kapena Lofunika?
Pokhala ndi cohab, mukukonzeratu zimene zidzachitikire katunduyo ngati ubwenziwo utatha. Pakachitika chiwonongeko, chirichonse chiyenera kuthetsedwa mofulumira, ndi ndalama zochepa komanso kupsinjika maganizo. Onse awiri akhoza kupitiriza ndi moyo wawo mwamsanga.
Momwe anthu amachitira ndi kupsinjika maganizo, mbiri yawo, malingaliro awo ndi mantha ndizofunikira kwambiri poganiza zokonzekera mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi. Mabanja ena amadzimva kukhala otetezeka muubwenzi, podziwa kuti zonse zogawanitsa katundu wawo zasamalidwa kale, ngati ubalewo watha. Nthawi yawo palimodzi ikhoza kukhala yosasamala, chifukwa palibe chomwe chatsalira kulimbana nacho; izo zalembedwa mwakuda ndi zoyera.
Kwa okwatirana ena, cohab amadzimva ngati ulosi wodzikwaniritsa, kutha kokonzekera mtsogolo. Mmodzi kapena onse awiri angaganize kuti akhala ochita zisudzo m'tsoka, akudikirira kuti ulosi womvetsa chisoniwo uwonekere mu script. Lingaliro limeneli likhoza kukhala gwero la kupsyinjika kwakukulu; mtambo wakuda ukuzungulira pa ubale wawo wonse.
Njira yabwino yothetsera banja limodzi ikhoza kukhala yolakwika kwa ena. Palibe yankho lofanana, ndipo kulankhulana momasuka n’kofunika.
Chimachitika ndi Chiyani Ngati Mulibe Cohab?
Ku British Columbia, lamulo la Family Law Act limayang'anira amene amalandira zomwe okwatirana alibe mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi ndipo mkangano umayamba. Malinga ndi lamuloli, katundu ndi ngongole zimagawidwa mofanana pakati pa onse awiri. Ndi udindo wa aliyense kuti apereke umboni wotsimikizira zomwe adabweretsa muubwenzi.
Pakhoza kukhala kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa chiwongoladzanja chomwe chimapatsa munthu aliyense zomwe amaziona kuti ndi zofunika kwambiri, motsutsana ndi chiwonongeko chotengera kugawanika kwa katundu ndi ngongole, malinga ndi mtengo wandalama. Nthawi yabwino yokambirana izi ndi pamene onse awiri ali muubwenzi.
Njira yodziwika kwambiri ndiyo kugwiritsa ntchito template yapaintaneti. Mawebusayiti omwe amapereka ma tempuletiwa akuwoneka kuti akupulumutsa nthawi ndi ndalama. Komabe, pali zitsanzo zambiri za maanja omwe adasungitsa katundu wawo ndi ngongole ku ma tempuleti apa intaneti, koma adazindikira kuti alibe phindu lalamulo. Zikatero, kugawa katundu ndi ngongole kumayendetsedwa ndi Family Law Act, monga momwe zikanakhalira ngati palibe mgwirizano.
Kodi Chimachitika N'chiyani Ngati Zinthu Zikusintha?
Mapangano okhalira limodzi ayenera kuwonedwa ngati zikalata zamoyo. Malipiro obweza ngongole amakonzedwanso zaka zisanu zilizonse chifukwa mitengo, ntchito komanso mikhalidwe yabanja imasintha. Mofananamo, mapangano okhalira pamodzi ayenera kuunikanso kaŵirikaŵiri kuti akhalebe amakono ndi kutsimikizira kuti akuchitabe zimene analinganizidwira kuchita.
Ndizomveka kubwereza mgwirizano zaka zisanu zilizonse, kapena pambuyo pa chochitika chilichonse chofunika, monga ukwati, kubadwa kwa mwana, kulandira ndalama zambiri kapena katundu mu cholowa. Ndime yowunikira ikhoza kuphatikizidwa muzolemba zokha, zoyambitsidwa ndi chimodzi mwazochitika zomwe zatchulidwa kapena nthawi.
Kodi Pangano la Ukwati kapena Usanakwatire N'chiyani?
Gawo la katundu mu Family Relations Act of British Columbia limazindikira kuti ukwati ndi mgwirizano wofanana pakati pa okwatirana. Pansi pa gawo 56, mwamuna kapena mkazi aliyense ali ndi ufulu wopeza theka la zinthu za m’banjamo. Malinga ndi dongosololi, kasamalidwe ka banja, kasamalidwe ka ana ndi kasamalidwe ka ndalama ndi udindo wa onse okwatirana. Malamulo oyendetsera kagawidwe ka katundu ngati banja lasokonekera amafuna kuonetsetsa kuti zopereka zonse zikuzindikirika komanso kuti chuma chachuma chikugawidwa mofanana.
Lamulo lokhazikitsidwa likhoza kusinthidwa, komabe, ngati okwatirana agwirizana ndi mfundo zenizeni. Kufunika kwa magawano ofanana kumatengera kukhalapo kwa mgwirizano waukwati. Imadziwikanso kuti mgwirizano wapakhomo, mgwirizano wapakhomo kapena prenup, mgwirizano waukwati ndi mgwirizano womwe umafotokozera mwachidule udindo wa munthu aliyense kwa wina. Cholinga cha pangano laukwati ndi kupewa zomwe zafotokozedwa mu Family Relations Act. Kaŵirikaŵiri, mapangano ameneŵa amakhudza nkhani zandalama ndipo amalola maguluwo kupanga makonzedwe awoawo a mmene katundu adzagaŵira.
Pangano la Cohabitation kapena Prenuptial Agreement Liyenera Kukhala Loyenera ngati Liyenera Kukhazikika
Akuluakulu a boma kaŵirikaŵiri adzaima ndi makhoti pochirikiza makonzedwe aumwini pakati pa okwatirana kaamba ka kugaŵana chuma chawo ngati ukwatiwo ukutha. Komabe, atha kulowererapo ngati dongosololi silinachite chilungamo. British Columbia imagwiritsa ntchito mulingo wachilungamo wokhala ndi malire otsika pakulowererapo kwa milandu kuposa zigawo zina ku Canada.
Bungwe la Family Relations Act likunena kuti katundu ayenera kugawidwa malinga ndi mgwirizano pokhapokha ngati sichingayende bwino. Khotilo litha kuona kuti kugawikako kuli kosayenera, kutengera chimodzi kapena zingapo. Ngati zatsimikizidwa kukhala zopanda chilungamo, katunduyo akhoza kugawidwa m'magawo omwe akhazikitsidwa ndi Khothi.
Nazi zina mwazifukwa zomwe Khothi liziganizira:
- zofuna za munthu aliyense payekha
- nthawi yaukwati
- kutalika kwa nthawi yomwe awiriwa ankakhala mosiyana komanso mosiyana
- tsiku lomwe katunduyo adagulidwa kapena kutayidwa
- kaya katunduyo anali cholowa kapena mphatso makamaka kwa gulu limodzi
- ngati mgwirizanowo udasokoneza chiwopsezo chamalingaliro kapena malingaliro a mnzanu
- Chikoka chinagwiritsidwa ntchito pa mwamuna kapena mkazi kupyolera mu ulamuliro ndi kuponderezana
- panali mbiri ya nkhanza zamaganizo, zakuthupi kapena zachuma
- kapena panali kulamulira kwakukulu pa chuma cha banja
- mnzakeyo anapezerapo mwayi pa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake amene sanamvetse chikhalidwe kapena zotsatira za mgwirizanowo
- m’modzi anali ndi loya woti awapatse uphungu wodziyimira pawokha pomwe wina analibe
- kupeza kunaletsedwa, kapena panali zoletsa zosamveka pakutulutsidwa kwa chidziwitso chandalama
- zochitika zachuma za maphwando zinasintha kwambiri chifukwa cha kutalika kwa nthawi kuchokera pa mgwirizano
- m’modzi wa m’banja amadwala kapena kulemala atasaina panganolo
- m’modzi wa m’banja amakhala ndi udindo wosamalira ana a pachibwenzi
Ndi Liti Pangano Loyenera Kukwatiwa Likulangizidwa Kapena Likufunika?
Kulingalira ndi kuyang'ana mu mgwirizano waukwati kungakhale kophunzitsa kwambiri, kaya mupitirize kapena ayi. Kudziwa momwe katundu ndi ngongole zimagawidwira pamene khoti likhoza kupereka chithandizo kwa okwatirana, komanso kumvetsetsa zovuta zomwe zingatheke pamene pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa ndalama kungakhale upangiri wamtengo wapatali. A prenup angapereke momveka bwino kumvetsetsa yemwe ali ndi zomwe ngati banja silikuyenda patali.
Monga momwe zilili ndi mgwirizano waukwati wa cohab, prenup ingapereke mtendere wamaganizo. Ndi anthu ochepa chabe amene amaloŵa m’banja kukhulupirira kuti kusudzulana n’kosapeweka. Pangano lokonzekera ukwati usanakwatire lili ngati inshuwalansi yomwe muli nayo panyumba kapena galimoto yanu. Zilipo ngati zikufunika. Pangano lolembedwa bwino liyenera kupangitsa nkhani yanu yachisudzulo kukhala yosavuta ngati banja likutha. Monga momwe zimakhalira ndi inshuwaransi, kulemba mgwirizano wa prenup kumawonetsa kuti ndinu odalirika komanso owona.
A prenup akhoza kukutetezani kuti musalemedwe ndi ngongole zomwe munali nazo kale, ndalama zolipirira ndalama ndi ndalama zothandizira ana. Chisudzulo chingawononge kukhazikika kwanu kwa ngongole ndi zachuma, ndi kuthekera kwanu kuyambanso mwatsopano. Kugawikana kwa ngongole kungakhale kofunikira ku tsogolo lanu monga kugawa katundu.
Wokonzekera ukwati ayenera kutsimikizira mbali zonse ziwiri za kukhazikitsidwa kwachilungamo, kokonzedwa ndi anthu awiri omwe amakondana ndipo akukonzekera kuthera moyo wawo wonse pamodzi. Ino ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri yoti mukhazikitse zinthu zothandiza kuti chibwenzicho chisakhale chopweteka ngati n'kotheka.
Kodi Mapangano Asanakwatirane Akukwaniritsidwa ku British Columbia?
Kuti pangano laukwati litheke, liyenera kusayinidwa ndi onse awiri, ndi mboni imodzi. Ngati wasainidwa pambuyo paukwati, uyamba kugwira ntchito nthawi yomweyo. Ngati mgwirizanowo uli wachilungamo, ndipo onse awiri okwatirana adalandira uphungu wazamalamulo wodziyimira pawokha, ukhoza kutsimikiziridwa kukhoti lamilandu. Komabe, ngati musayina mgwirizano, podziwa kuti sichilungamo, ndikuyembekeza kuti khoti silingagwirizane nazo, pali mwayi wochepa kuti mupambane.
N’zotheka kuphatikizirapo malamulo okhudza ana m’mapangano okwatirana asanakwatirane, koma makhoti amawapenda nthaŵi zonse ukwati ukatha.
Kodi Mungasinthe Kapena Kuletsa Cohab kapena Prenup?
Mutha kusintha kapena kuletsa mgwirizano wanu nthawi zonse, bola ngati onse agwirizana ndipo zosinthazo zasaina, ndi mboni.
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