Mapangano a Cohabitation, Mapangano Osakwatirana, ndi Mapangano a Ukwati
1 - Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa mgwirizano wokwatirana asanakwatirane ("prenup"), mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi, ndi mgwirizano waukwati?
Mwachidule, pali kusiyana kochepa kwambiri pakati pa mapangano atatu omwe ali pamwambawa. Pangano laukwati ndi pangano limene mumasainirana ndi wokondedwa wanu musanalowe m’banja kapena mutalowa m’banja pamene ubwenzi wanu udakali pabwino. Pangano la kukhalira limodzi ndi pangano limene mumasainirana ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima musanasamukire naye kapena mutasamukira popanda cholinga chodzakwatirana posachedwapa. Mgwirizano umodzi ukhoza kukhala pangano la kukhalira limodzi pamene okwatiranawo akukhala pamodzi ndiyeno monga pangano la ukwati pamene asankha kukwatirana. M'magawo otsala a mgwirizanowu, ndikakamba za "mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi" ndikutanthauza mayina onse atatu.
2- Kodi cholinga chopeza mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi ndi chiyani?
Ulamuliro wamalamulo abanja ku British Columbia ndi Canada wakhazikitsidwa pa Chisudzulo Act, lamulo loperekedwa ndi Federal Parliament, ndi Family Law Act, lamulo loperekedwa ndi nyumba yamalamulo yachigawo cha British Columbia. Machitidwe awiriwa amafotokoza za ufulu ndi udindo omwe anthu awiri okwatirana amakhala nawo akasiyana wina ndi mzake. Lamulo la Divorce Act ndi Lamulo la Banja ndi malamulo aatali komanso ovuta ndipo kuwafotokozera sikungathe kufotokozedwa ndi nkhaniyi, koma mbali zina za malamulo awiriwa zimakhudza ufulu wa anthu a tsiku ndi tsiku aku British Columbia atapatukana ndi anzawo.
Lamulo la Family Law Act limatanthauzira magulu a katundu ngati "katundu wa banja" ndi "katundu wosiyana" ndipo limati katundu wabanja ayenera kugawidwa 50/50 pakati pa okwatirana pambuyo pa kupatukana. Palinso makonzedwe ofanana omwe amagwira ntchito pa ngongole ndi kunena kuti ngongole ya banja iyenera kugawanika pakati pa okwatirana. The Family Law Act imanenanso kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi akhoza kupempha kuti alandire chithandizo cham'banja kuchokera kwa mnzawo wakale pambuyo pa kupatukana. Pomaliza, lamulo la Family Law Act limafotokoza za kuyenera kwa ana kupeza chithandizo cha ana kuchokera kwa makolo awo.
Mfundo yofunika kukumbukira ndi yakuti Lamulo la Malamulo a Banja limatanthauzira mwamuna kapena mkazi mosiyana ndi momwe anthu ambiri angaganizire. Ndime 3 ya Act imati:
3 (1) Munthu ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi pa zolinga za Lamuloli ngati munthuyo
(a) anakwatiwa ndi munthu wina, kapena
(b) wakhala ndi munthu wina muubwenzi ngati ukwati, ndi
(i) wachita izi kwa nthawi yopitilira zaka zosachepera 2, kapena
(ii) kupatula mu Gawo 5 [Gawo la Katundu] ndipo 6 [Gawo la Pension], ali ndi mwana ndi munthu winayo.
Choncho, tanthawuzo la okwatirana mu Family Law Act limaphatikizapo maanja omwe sanakwatiranepo - lingaliro lomwe nthawi zambiri limatchedwa "ukwati walamulo wamba" m'mawu a tsiku ndi tsiku. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti anthu awiri amene adasamukira pamodzi pazifukwa zilizonse ndipo ali paubwenzi wonga (wachikondi) akhoza kuonedwa ngati okwatirana patatha zaka ziwiri ndipo akhoza kukhala ndi ufulu ku katundu wa wina ndi mzake ndi penshoni pambuyo pa kupatukana.
Maanja omwe ali ndi diso lakutsogolo ndikukonzekera zochitika zosayembekezereka akhoza kuzindikira chiwopsezo chomwe chilipo paulamuliro walamulo komanso kufunika kwa mapangano okhalira limodzi. Palibe amene anganene zimene zidzachitike m’zaka khumi, makumi aŵiri, kapena kupitirira apo m’tsogolo. Popanda chisamaliro ndi kukonzekera pakali pano, mwamuna kapena mkazi mmodzi akhoza kuikidwa m'mavuto azachuma komanso mwalamulo ngati ubalewo watha. Kupatukana kumene okwatirana amapita kukhoti chifukwa cha mikangano ya katundu kungawononge ndalama zambiri, kutenga zaka kuti kuthetsedwe, kumayambitsa kuvutika maganizo, ndi kuwononga mbiri ya okwatiranawo. Zingathenso kutsogolera ku zigamulo za khoti zomwe zimasiya maphwando m'mavuto azachuma kwa moyo wawo wonse.
Mwachitsanzo, nkhani ya P (D) ndi S (A), 2021 NWTSC 30 ndi za banja lina limene linapatukana pamene anali ndi zaka za m’ma 2003 m’chaka cha 2006. Khoti linapereka lamulo mu 2000 loti mwamunayo azilipira ndalama zokwana madola 2017 zaukwati kwa mkazi wake wakale mwezi uliwonse. Lamuloli lidasiyanasiyana pakugwiritsa ntchito kwa mwamuna mu 1200 kuti achepetse ndalama zothandizira okwatirana kufika $2021 pamwezi. Mu 70, mwamunayo, yemwe tsopano ali ndi zaka za m'ma XNUMX ndipo akukhala ndi thanzi labwino, adapemphanso kukhoti kuti apemphenso kuti asaperekenso chithandizo cha mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, chifukwa sakanatha kugwira ntchito modalirika ndipo ayenera kupuma.
Mlanduwu ukuwonetsa kuti kupatukana pansi pa malamulo osakhazikika a kugawa katundu ndi chithandizo cha mwamuna kapena mkazi kungapangitse kuti munthu apereke chithandizo kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake wakale kwa zaka zoposa 15. Okwatiranawo amayenera kupita kukhoti ndikumenyana kangapo panthawiyi.
Ngati maphwandowo anali ndi mgwirizano wokonzedwa bwino wa cohabitation, akanatha kuthetsa nkhaniyi panthawi yomwe adapatukana mu 2003.
3 - Mungamutsimikizire bwanji wokondedwa wanu kuti ndi bwino kupeza mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi?
Inu ndi mnzanuyo mukuyenera kukhala pansi ndikukambirana moona mtima. Muyenera kudzifunsa mafunso otsatirawa:
- Ndani ayenera kupanga zisankho pa moyo wathu? Kodi tiyenera kupanga mgwirizano wa kukhalira limodzi pakali pano kuti tili ndi unansi wabwino ndipo tingathe kutero, kapena tiyenera kupatukana mwaukali m’tsogolo, kumenyana m’khoti, ndi woweruza amene sadziwa zambiri ponena za ife kupanga zosankha pa moyo wathu?
- Kodi ndife odziwa bwino zachuma? Kodi tikufuna kugwiritsa ntchito ndalamazo pompano kuti tikhale ndi mgwirizano wokonzedwa bwino wa cohabitation kapena tikufuna kulipira madola masauzande ambiri kuti tithetse mikangano yathu ngati tipatukana?
- Kodi luso lokonzekera zam'tsogolo ndi zopuma pantchito n'kofunika bwanji? Kodi tikufuna kukhala ndi chitsimikiziro ndi kukhazikika kotero kuti titha kukonzekera bwino zopuma pantchito kapena tikufuna kuyika pachiwopsezo cha kusokonekera kwa ubale ndikuponyanso zopinga muzokonzekera zathu zopuma pantchito?
Mukakhala ndi zokambiranazi, mutha kupanga chiganizo chogwirizana ngati kupeza mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi ndi chisankho chabwino kwa inu ndi banja lanu.
4 - Kodi mgwirizano wokhalira limodzi ndi njira ina yotetezera ufulu wanu?
Ayi, sichoncho. Gawo 93 la Lamulo la Malamulo a Zabanja limalola Khoti Lalikulu Kwambiri ku British Columbia kuti likhazikitse pangano limene likuona kuti n’lopanda chilungamo kwambiri malinga ndi mfundo zina za m’gawolo.
Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kuti mgwirizano wanu wokhalira limodzi ulembedwe mothandizidwa ndi loya yemwe ali ndi luso pankhaniyi komanso kudziwa zomwe mungachite kuti mulembe mgwirizano womwe ungakupatseni inu ndi banja lanu kukhala otsimikiza kwambiri.
Funsani lero kuti mukambirane ndi Amir Ghorbani, Loya wa zabanja la Pax Law, ponena za pangano lokhalira limodzi kwa inu ndi mnzanuyo.
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