He aha nā manawa e loaʻa ai kaʻu mehriyeh ma BC?

Ua wehewehe ʻia ʻo Mehriyeh e nā ʻaha ʻo British Columbia ma ke ʻano he makana i hāʻawi ʻia e ke kāne i kāna wahine, maʻamau i ka manawa i male ai ka kāne. Hiki i ka wahine ke koi iā Mehrieh i kēlā me kēia manawa ma mua, i ka wā a i ʻole ma hope o ka kaʻawale ʻana. Inā ʻoe e kākau ana i kahi ʻaelike male mehriyeh, he mea nui ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi loio ʻohana i ʻike i ke kānāwai dowry e nānā iā ia e hōʻoia i ka palekana o kāu mau pono a me kou mau pono.

Ma British Columbia a me Ontario, Kanada, ma lalo o ka Family Relations Act, ua hoʻokō ʻia nā ʻaelike meheriyeh, maher, a me dowry. Nui nā kumu e noʻonoʻo ʻia ma kahi hihia mehriyeh a i ʻole dowry. Inā ʻaʻole i ʻoi aku ka nui o ka makana ma mua o ka hapalua o ka waiwai o ka male, e manaʻo ʻia he kūpono. Inā ua male kāu Iranian ma Kanada, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o nā huaʻōlelo ma mua o ka hana ʻana ma Iran. E noʻonoʻo ʻia ka lōʻihi o ke kūkākūkā ʻana, a inā paha i hoʻokumu ʻia nā ʻōlelo e nā mākua i nā makahiki i hala aku nei, a i ʻole he ʻāpana ikaika o ke kāne kāne a me ka wahine mare i nā kūkākūkā hou. Ua pūlima ʻia nā pepa ʻauhau e nā mākua a i ʻole ke kāne mare? E noʻonoʻo ʻia ka lōʻihi o ka male ʻana, me nā kumu ʻē aʻe.

Ma Pax Law, maopopo iā mākou ke ʻano kuʻuna a me ka koʻikoʻi o nā ʻaelike mehriyeh, maher, a me dowry. Eia mākou e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokō i kāu mau kuleana ma lalo o kēia mau ʻaelike a pale i kāu mau pono kālā. Inā ʻo ia ke ʻano o ke kūkākūkā ʻana i kahi hoʻoholo a i ʻole hele i ka ʻaha hoʻokolokolo, eia mākou no ʻoe i kēlā me kēia pae o ke ala.

Kāhea iā mā ou i kēia lā i hoʻonohonoho i kahi kūkākūkā!

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Na wai e hoʻoholo i ka mahr?

ʻO ka Mahr a i ʻole dowry, ma nā moʻomeheu waena hikina, he ʻōlelo hoʻohiki kālā mai ke kāne i ka wahine. Hoʻonohonoho ʻia ka nui e ka ʻaelike male.

ʻEhia mau ʻano mahr?

Ma lalo o ke kānāwai Iranian, ʻo Mahr ka mea maʻamau o nā ʻano ʻelua: end-al-motalebeh ʻo ia hoʻi "ma ke noi" a me ka end-al-estetae ʻo ia hoʻi "ma luna o ka hiki".

He aha ka Mehrieh?

Ua wehewehe ʻia ʻo Mehrieh e nā ʻaha ʻo British Columbia ma ke ʻano he makana i hāʻawi ʻia e ke kāne i kāna wahine, maʻamau i ka manawa i male ai ka kāne.
ʻO ka nīnau maoli inā paha e hoʻokō ʻia ʻo Mahr a i ʻole dowry. Inā hoʻohālikelike ʻia ka ʻaelike male ma ke ʻano a me ka ʻike i kahi ʻaelike male ma Kanada, hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia.

Ehia ka awelika mahr?

ʻAʻohe helu helu e pili ana i ka awelika Mahr.

Pono anei ʻo Nikkah me ka ʻole mahr? 

ʻAe, inā ʻaʻole he Nikkah pōkole kahi i kauoha ai ke kānāwai Iran i nā ʻaoʻao e hoʻonoho iā Mahr.

He aha ka mahr ma hope o ka hemo ʻana?

He uku no ka wahine.

Pono anei ʻo Mahr?

Ma lalo o ke kānāwai Iranian, pono ia no ka male pōkole akā ʻaʻole no ka male mau.